Celebrations of Life
As the popularity of cremation continues to rise, more and more families are moving away from holding traditional funerals or ceremonies and are opting for celebrations of life instead. A celebration of life is an opportunity for friends and relatives to pay tribute to a loved one while saying goodbye in a uniquely personal way. As you explore ideas for a service, consider what the deceased would enjoy, but also ensure you meet the emotional and spiritual needs of your guests.
Not only does a celebration of life provide your family with the opportunity to be more creative than a traditional funeral, it also allows you more time to plan the event. With most funerals, there is a small window of time to care for the remains and gathers guests to say goodbye. A celebration of life eliminates the stress of rushing to plan an event as they can be held days, weeks or even months after the remains have been cared for. This means you can take your time to make sure your family celebrates the life of your loved one and gives them the goodbye they deserve.
This kind of event also allows you to involve more people in the planning process. For many, the sudden loss of a loved one can be overwhelming and stressful. Because there is no rush to hold a celebration of life, your family can deal with the initial grief of your loss before working together to plan a celebratory event. This means you can involve more people in the planning process and schedule it at a time that is the most convenient for your guests.
Celebration of Life Ideas
Just as each person is unique, each celebration of life service is personal and unique. As you explore ideas for a service, consider what the deceased would enjoy, but also what the attendees will enjoy and what will meet their emotional and spiritual needs.
We have provided a few ideas, but this list is by no means completed. Use these ideas as a starting point to plan the perfect service to suit your unique needs.
- Ask attendees to bring along a story or memory of your loved one to share. Guests comfort levels will vary – you may want to provide time for those who would like to publicly share their memory, but also note cards for those who prefer to write down their memory to privately be shared with the family.
- Enjoy songs, bands or the genre of music that were favorites. Music is an integral part of life for many people, and a celebration of life service is the perfect event in which to showcase the meaningful music of your loved one's life.
- If planning for snacks or refreshments, plan to enjoy your loved one’s favorite dishes or treats.
- Display a photo memory board, a memorial table or a memorial DVD of images of your loved one doing what they enjoyed most. Photos, which capture a moment, often spark conversation and bring up forgotten memories.
- A balloon release is often a feature of a celebration of life ceremony, and a beautiful gesture. But don’t be afraid to think outside the box to find something to suit your loved one’s personality. Some alternatives that have the same sentiment as a balloon release are to toss wildflower seeds into a field, blow bubbles or light luminaries.
- Ask guests to make a donation to a scholarship fund or charity in the deceased’s name in lieu of sending flowers.
- If your loved one was a collector, create a display of their collectibles. This could include their prized baseball cards, a scrapbook of their photography, or anything else that was unique to them.
- Create a theme for the celebration. This could be focused around their favorite sports team or their love for hunting for instance.
- Distribute memorial tree seedlings. Thank guests for coming with a memorial tree seedling that they can plant in honor of the deceased.
- Floating lanterns are a part of many cultures celebrations around the world. During or after the service, guests can release sky lanterns to honor your loved one.
- Fireworks are a popular way to celebrate holidays like Memorial Day and Independence Day. What better way to celebrate the life of your loved one then concluding it with a fireworks display.